A Life Well Lived: Remembering Our Dear Friend George

 Today was a day of both sorrow and gratitude.

This morning Julie and I attended the funeral of our longtime friend and La Salle classmate, George R., at Assumption Cemetery. In the evening, we attended Saturday Mass at St. Agnes Tsao K Y Parish Church. It was a day filled with prayer, remembrance, and reflection.

During the visitation, George's parish priest and many friends shared stories about his life. Again and again, one picture emerged. George was a simple man, gentle in nature, friendly to everyone he met, and never one to seek attention. He quietly touched the lives of many people.

George's life journey was remarkable in its simplicity.

He studied at La Salle College, continued to the University of Hong Kong, and graduated with honours. He became a teacher at Maryknoll Father's  School, helping young people grow through education. After immigrating to Canada, he continued his pursue at University of Toronto where he graduated with Master of Library Science degree. He worked as a librarian, organizing books and making knowledge accessible to the community.

As I listened to the stories, one thought stayed with me.

George spent his entire life sharing knowledge.

First, he learned.

Then, he taught.

Finally, he cared for books so that countless others could continue learning.

His career was never about fame or wealth. It was about helping people discover ideas, develop themselves, and become better informed. Looking back, it seems that sharing knowledge was the quiet mission of his life.

Friends and students travelled from Hong Kong, Ottawa, different parts of Canada, and the United States to say their final goodbye. Their presence spoke more loudly than words. It reflected how deeply George was loved and respected.

As we grow older, we attend more funerals than weddings. Each farewell reminds us that life is precious and friendships should never be taken for granted. The monthly dim sum gatherings with our La Salle classmates, the birthday dinners, the laughter, and the conversations now carry even greater meaning. They are memories we continue to treasure.

Today we grieve the loss of a very good friend.

But we also celebrate a life well lived—a life marked by humility, kindness, friendship, and a lifelong commitment to sharing knowledge.

May George Rest in Peace.

Thank you, George, for walking part of life's journey with us. You will always be remembered.

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人生無憾：懷念我們的摯友 George R

今天，是充滿悲傷與感恩的一天。

今天早上，我和 Julie 到 Assumption Cemetery 送別我們的老同學、老朋友 George R。晚上，我們參加了 St. Agnes Tsao K Y Parish Church 的主日晚彌撒，在祈禱中繼續懷念這位多年好友。

在瞻仰遺容和追思聚會中，堂區神父及 George 的朋友們分享了許多有關他的故事。

大家口中的 George，都有一個共同的形象：他是一位簡單、真誠、平易近人的人，待人友善，從不張揚，卻默默地影響著身邊每一個人。

George 的人生旅程，其實十分精彩。

他曾就讀於香港喇沙書院，後升讀香港大學，並以優異成績畢業。畢業後，他於瑪利諾神父學校（Maryknoll Father's School）任教，致力透過教育培育年輕一代，幫助他們成長。移民加拿大後，他繼續深造，就讀多倫多大學，獲得圖書館學碩士（Master of Library Science）學位。其後，他擔任圖書館館員，負責整理館藏、管理圖書，並讓知識更方便地惠及社區大眾

在聆聽大家分享時，我腦海裡浮現出一句話：

George 用一生來分享知識。

他先努力學習；

然後成為老師，教育下一代；

最後成為圖書館員，讓更多人能夠透過閱讀獲得知識。

他的工作從來不是為了名利，而是默默地幫助別人成長。

回望他的一生，我發現他的生命其實有一條非常清晰的主線——學習、教導、分享。

今天，來自香港、渥太華、加拿大各地，以及美國的朋友，都專程前來送他最後一程。

大家不遠千里而來，不只是參加一場喪禮，更是向一位珍貴的朋友表達最後的敬意。

朋友的到來，比任何言語都更能說明 George 在大家心中的地位。

隨著年紀漸長，我們開始參加的喪禮，比婚禮還要多。

每一次送別，都提醒我們：生命有限，而友情彌足珍貴。

我們喇沙舊同學每月一次的飲茶、生日聚會、晚餐，以及一起分享人生點滴，如今都變得更加值得珍惜。

今天，我們失去了一位非常要好的朋友。

但我們同時也在慶祝一個精彩的人生。

一個充滿謙遜、善良、友誼，以及一生致力於分享知識的人生。

願 George 安息主懷。

謝謝你，George。

感謝你陪伴我們走過人生其中一段美好的旅程。

我們永遠懷念你，也永遠不會忘記你。

My New Walking Companion: The HOKA Clifton 10

 
Last weekend, I treated myself to a new pair of walking shoes—the HOKA Clifton 10.

At first glance, buying a pair of shoes may not seem like a big event. But as we grow older, we begin to appreciate how important comfort, mobility, and health are to our daily lives. A good pair of walking shoes is no longer just footwear; it becomes a trusted companion on our journeys.

The search began after I noticed that my old shoes were showing signs of wear. Recently, I had walked nearly 7,000 steps in a day while picking up my repaired RAV4. That evening, my calves felt stiff and sore. It reminded me that comfortable and supportive footwear matters more than ever.

After doing some research and reading reviews, I became interested in HOKA shoes. Two models caught my attention: the Clifton 10 and the Bondi 9. Both are popular among walkers and runners, known for their cushioning and comfort.

On Father's Day weekend, after enjoying lunch with Alison and family, we visited Hillcrest Mall. I took the opportunity to try both models.

The Bondi 9 felt soft and highly cushioned. It was comfortable, but for me it seemed a little bulky. Then I tried the Clifton 10.

The difference was immediate.

The Clifton felt more balanced and natural. It offered excellent cushioning while maintaining a stable connection to the ground. I also felt that the road grip was better, giving me more confidence while walking. Most importantly, it simply felt right on my feet.

There was another pleasant surprise. The Clifton 10 was on sale with a 20% discount, and the store was running a gift card promotion as well. Good comfort combined with good value made the decision much easier.

So I happily became the owner of a new pair of HOKA Clifton 10 walking shoes.

What brought me the greatest satisfaction was not the purchase itself. It was the process of comparing options, listening to my body, and making a thoughtful choice. Sometimes happiness comes from simple things—a comfortable pair of shoes, a relaxing cup of tea afterward, and the anticipation of future walks.

This morning, as I prepare for another day of ping pong, community activities, and lunch with friends, I look forward to putting my new walking companion to work.

Life's journey continues, one step at a time.

And now, those steps may be a little more comfortable.

— David Au
Grandpa Journey

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我的新步行夥伴——HOKA Clifton 10

上星期，我為自己添置了一雙新的步行鞋——HOKA Clifton 10。

乍看之下，買一雙鞋似乎不是什麼大事。但隨著年齡增長，我們越來越明白舒適、活動能力和健康的重要性。一雙好的步行鞋，不再只是鞋子，而是一位陪伴我們走過人生旅程的夥伴。

這次換鞋的念頭，源於最近的一次經歷。前些日子，我和太太乘搭公共交通工具去取回維修好的 RAV4。當天走了接近七千步，回到家後，小腿感到僵硬和酸痛。這讓我再次意識到，一雙舒適而有支撐力的鞋子，對我們這些銀髮族來說是多麼重要。

於是，我開始做一些資料搜集，也閱讀了不少網上的評價。當中最吸引我注意的是 HOKA 這個品牌，而 Clifton 10 和 Bondi 9 則是兩款最受歡迎的型號。

父親節週末那天，在 Alison 一家邀請我們共進午餐後，我們順道到 Hillcrest Mall 逛街。我把握這個機會，親自試穿這兩款鞋。

Bondi 9 的確十分柔軟，緩震效果非常出色。不過對我來說，它的鞋底似乎稍厚了一些，感覺有點笨重。

接著我試穿 Clifton 10。

感覺立刻不同了。

Clifton 10 讓我覺得更加平衡自然，既有足夠的緩震保護，又保留了良好的路面感。它的抓地力也令我留下深刻印象，讓步行時感覺更加穩定和安心。最重要的是，它穿在腳上感覺非常舒服，彷彿就是為我而設。

更令人開心的是，Clifton 10 當時正有八折優惠，加上購買禮品卡還可獲贈額外電子禮卡，性價比相當不錯。舒適加上優惠，令我的選擇變得更加容易。

於是，我高高興興地把這雙 HOKA Clifton 10 帶回家。

其實，令我感到快樂的並不只是買到新鞋，而是整個選擇的過程。比較不同型號、親身試穿、聆聽自己雙腳的感受，然後作出最適合自己的決定。這種過程本身，就是生活中的一種樂趣。

很多時候，幸福並不來自昂貴的東西，而是來自一些簡單的小事：找到一雙合適的鞋子、和家人共度愉快的時光、喝一杯下午茶，又或者期待未來一次又一次舒適的散步。

今天早上，我穿上新鞋去打乒乓球、與朋友見面、享受退休生活。我知道，人生的旅程仍在繼續。

而未來的每一步，或許都會走得更輕鬆、更舒適一些。

一步一腳印，繼續前行。

—— David Au
《Grandpa Journey》

What Really Caused the CV Joint Damage?

 Follow-up to "A Rainy Day and an Unexpected Car Repair"

The day after picking up my Toyota RAV4 from the garage, I found myself thinking about what might have caused the CV joint and axle damage that led to the repair.

The repair bill came to about C$1,000, including tax, and involved replacing the CV joints, shafts, and axles on both sides of the vehicle. Thankfully, the problem was discovered before it became a more serious breakdown, and the work was covered by a one-year warranty.

As I sat at home that evening listening to the rain outside, I began reflecting on the possible causes.

Was it the potholes?

Like many drivers in Ontario, I have driven over my share of potholes. Some are small and unavoidable, while others seem to appear overnight after a long winter. Even when we try to avoid them, a sudden bump can place stress on the suspension, steering components, and drive axles.

Was it the railway crossings?

I also thought about the many times I crossed railway tracks. Perhaps I did not slow down enough on some occasions. A sharp impact from uneven rails can send a shock through the vehicle, especially as it ages. Although a single crossing may not cause damage, repeated impacts over the years can gradually take their toll.

Or was it the accident a few months ago?

A few months back, another vehicle collided with my RAV4. The accident damaged the front bumper, one headlight, and left scratches along the right front door. The visible damage was repaired, and the vehicle seemed to drive normally afterward.

Still, I cannot help wondering whether the impact may have contributed to hidden stress on some of the front-end components. It is difficult to know for certain. Modern vehicles are complex machines, and damage does not always show up immediately.

The truth is that I may never know the exact cause.

Perhaps it was one major event.

Perhaps it was years of normal wear and tear.

Or perhaps it was a combination of potholes, railway crossings, the accident, and simply the passage of time.

What this experience reminded me is that every vehicle has a story. Every kilometre travelled leaves its mark. Just as our bodies change as we grow older, so do our cars.

The important thing is not to dwell on what caused the problem but to deal with it when it appears.

I am grateful that I noticed the grease leaking onto the garage floor. I am grateful that the mechanic identified the problem quickly. Most of all, I am grateful that the repair was completed before a roadside breakdown occurred.

Life often teaches us the same lesson.

We cannot always determine exactly why problems arise. Sometimes we simply have to recognize them, address them, and move forward.

Today the RAV4 is back on the road, and so am I.

And that, perhaps, is what matters most.

— Grandpa Journey

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一场雨天与一次意外的汽车维修

《Grandpa Journey》后续篇

提车回家后的第二天，我开始回想：到底是什么原因导致我这辆 Toyota RAV4 的 CV 万向节和半轴出现损坏？

这次维修费用约为 1000 加元（含税），更换了左右两侧的 CV 万向节、传动轴及半轴，好在问题在更严重故障发生之前被及时发现，而且维修还有一年的保修。

那天晚上，我坐在家里，听着窗外的雨声，开始静静思考可能的原因。

是不是路上的坑洞造成的？

在安大略生活的司机，都很难避免遇到坑洞。有些很小，有些则在冬季后突然出现。即使我们小心驾驶，有时一个小冲击，也可能对悬挂系统和传动部件造成压力。

是不是铁路轨道的颠簸？

我也回想起很多次经过铁路道口的情景。也许有些时候我没有足够减速。铁轨的高低差会对车辆产生明显冲击，尤其是车辆年纪渐长时，这些长期的震动会逐渐累积影响。

还是几个月前的那次事故？

几个月前，另一辆车撞到了我的 RAV4，导致前保险杠、大灯受损，右前车门也留下刮痕。虽然外观损伤已经修复，而且当时车辆行驶也没有明显异常，但我仍然忍不住怀疑，这次碰撞是否在看不见的地方留下了隐患。

现代汽车结构复杂，有些损伤不会立刻显现出来。

但真相是，我可能永远无法确定真正的原因。

也许是一次严重冲击；

也许是多年正常磨损的累积；

也可能是坑洞、铁路震动、事故，以及时间共同作用的结果。

这次经历让我意识到，每一辆车都有自己的“故事”。每一公里行驶，都会留下痕迹。就像人的身体一样，随着年龄增长，车辆也在不断变化。

重要的不是不断追问“为什么会坏”，而是在问题出现时及时处理。

我很庆幸我注意到了车库地面的油脂痕迹，也很庆幸技师迅速找出了问题，更庆幸维修及时完成，避免了更严重的路上故障。

人生往往也是如此。

很多问题，我们无法完全找到原因，但我们可以选择面对、处理，然后继续前行。

今天，这辆 RAV4 已经重新上路，而我也是。

而这，也许才是最重要的事情。

—— Grandpa Journey

A Rainy Day and an Unexpected Car Repair

 

This morning, the weather forecast called for rain throughout the day. Instead of heading out for my usual activities, Julie and I had a different mission: bringing my Toyota RAV4 to the maintenance garage.

A few days ago, I noticed an oily patch on the garage floor near the right front wheel. At first, I was concerned. Was it engine oil? Brake fluid? Transmission fluid? After speaking with my garage technician, he suggested it was most likely grease from the right front CV joint.

Like many drivers, I had heard of a CV joint before but never paid much attention to it. I learned that the CV (Constant Velocity) joint helps transfer power from the engine to the wheels while allowing the suspension and steering to move freely. It is protected by a rubber boot filled with grease. If the boot cracks or tears, grease can leak out, dirt can get in, and the joint may eventually wear out.

Today we dropped the vehicle off at the garage for a thorough inspection. Since the repair could take several hours, we decided to leave the car there and return home. Depending on what the mechanic finds, the repair may involve replacing the damaged boot or possibly the entire CV joint.

While unexpected repairs are never welcome, I view this as part of responsible vehicle ownership. A small problem discovered early is often much cheaper and safer to fix than a major breakdown later.

As seniors, many of us depend heavily on our vehicles for shopping, medical appointments, visiting family, and enjoying retirement activities. Regular maintenance and paying attention to unusual signs—such as noises, vibrations, or fluid leaks—can help prevent bigger problems down the road.

For now, all I can do is wait for the garage's diagnosis and hope the repair is straightforward.

Sometimes life reminds us that even reliable companions like a Toyota RAV4 need a little care and attention.

Have you ever discovered a small car problem that turned out to be something more serious—or perhaps something less serious than you expected? Feel free to share your experience in the comments.

— David
Grandpa Journey

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雨天與一次意外的汽車維修

今天早上，天氣預報顯示整天都會下雨。原本以為會是一個平靜的日子，沒想到我和 Julie 有一項特別的任務——把我的 Toyota RAV4 送到維修車房檢查。

幾天前，我發現車庫地面右前輪附近出現了一小片油漬。起初我有些擔心，不知道是引擎漏油、煞車油，還是變速箱油。後來致電車房技師詢問，他初步判斷很可能是右前方 CV Joint（等速萬向接頭）滲出的潤滑油脂。

和許多車主一樣，我雖然聽過 CV Joint 這個名詞，卻從未深入了解它的作用。經過一番查詢後，我才知道它負責將引擎動力傳送到車輪，同時讓車輪在轉向和懸掛系統運作時保持順暢。CV Joint 外面有一個橡膠防塵套（CV Boot），裡面充滿潤滑油脂。如果防塵套老化破裂，油脂便會滲漏出來，灰塵和水分也可能進入接頭內部，加速磨損。

今天，我們把車送到車房作進一步檢查。由於維修可能需要幾個小時，我們決定把車留在那裡，先回家等待消息。至於最終需要更換防塵套，還是整個 CV Joint，就要視乎技師檢查後的結果而定。

雖然突如其來的維修總會帶來一些不便，但我認為及早發現問題總比等到半路拋錨要好得多。很多時候，一個小小的故障如果及時處理，不但更安全，也能節省不少維修費用。

對於我們這些退休人士來說，汽車已成為日常生活的重要伙伴。無論是購物、看醫生、探望家人，還是參加社區活動，都離不開它。因此，定期保養和留意車輛的異常情況，例如漏油、異響或震動，都是非常重要的。

現在，我只能耐心等待車房的檢查結果，希望問題不算嚴重，能夠順利修復。

人生有時就是這樣，即使是一向可靠的 Toyota RAV4，也需要偶爾接受一些照顧和維護。或許，這也是它陪伴我們繼續前行所付出的代價。

朋友們，你們是否曾經因為一個看似不起眼的小問題，而發現了更大的汽車故障？又或者最後只是虛驚一場？歡迎在留言區分享你們的經驗。

— David
《Grandpa Journey 爺爺的旅程》

My First Experience Setting Up a Portable Karaoke Machine

 

Recently, I added a new toy to my collection — a portable karaoke machine with two wireless microphones. It looked simple at first, but I quickly realized that getting everything set up properly is a small learning journey of its own.

What started as a fun purchase turned into an interesting hands-on experience about Bluetooth connections, sound quality, and finding the right balance between simplicity and performance.

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📱 First Step: Connecting with My Phone

The easiest and most natural choice was to connect the karaoke machine to my cellphone via Bluetooth. Within a few minutes, I had music playing through the speaker.

It worked smoothly, and I could start singing right away using YouTube karaoke tracks.

However, I began to wonder:

• Would the sound be better on a laptop?
• Is there a difference in audio quality?
• Am I missing a better setup?

That curiosity led me to try a few different options.

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💻 Trying the Laptop Connection

Next, I connected the karaoke machine to my laptop via Bluetooth.

The setup worked just like the phone — simple and straightforward. I tested music playback and compared the sound.

To my surprise, the difference was not very big. Both phone and laptop produced similar sound quality through Bluetooth. The convenience factor, however, was clearly in favor of the phone.

This made me realize something important: for everyday karaoke use, Bluetooth is more about convenience than perfect audio fidelity.

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🔌 The Hidden Winner: Wired Connection

I later learned that the real improvement in sound quality comes from using an AUX cable instead of Bluetooth.

A wired connection delivers:

• clearer sound
• more stable audio
• no delay between voice and music

But for now, I decided not to go in that direction. I preferred to keep things simple and flexible.

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🎚️ Discovering the Real Secret: Mic and Echo Settings

What made the biggest difference in the overall karaoke experience was not the device connection — it was the sound balance.

After some trial and adjustment, I found that three settings matter most:

• 🎵 Music volume: around 60–70%
• 🎤 Microphone volume: around 50–60%
• 🌫️ Echo: around 30–40%

Too much echo made the voice unclear. Too little made it sound flat. The right balance created a pleasant “stage-like” feeling without distortion.

This was the real “aha” moment for me.

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🎯 What I Decided in the End

After testing both phone and laptop, I made a simple decision:

I will continue using my cellphone connection for now.

Why?

• It is the most convenient
• Setup is quick
• Sound difference is minimal for my needs
• I can focus more on singing, less on technical adjustments

Sometimes, simplicity is the best choice.

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🎤 Final Thoughts

This small experiment reminded me of something important: technology should serve enjoyment, not complicate it.

I didn’t need the perfect setup — I just needed a setup that lets me enjoy singing without frustration.

For now, my karaoke journey continues with my phone, my wireless mic, and a simple smile.

And that’s more than enough.

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🎤 我的第一台便携式卡拉OK机器使用体验与设置心得

最近，我添置了一台新的“小玩具”——一套便携式卡拉OK机器，配有两个无线麦克风。看起来操作很简单，但真正开始使用后，我才发现，设置过程其实也是一段小小的学习旅程。

从最初的兴奋，到一步一步尝试连接与调试，这次体验让我学到了不少关于蓝牙连接、音质选择，以及声音平衡的知识。

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📱 第一步：用手机连接最方便

一开始，我选择用手机通过蓝牙连接卡拉OK机器，这是最直接、最简单的方法。

几分钟内就成功连接上了，我马上可以通过YouTube播放伴奏开始唱歌。

不过在使用过程中，我开始思考：

• 用笔记本电脑会不会音质更好？
• 两种设备有没有明显差别？
• 有没有更理想的连接方式？

带着这些疑问，我开始了进一步的尝试。

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💻 尝试用笔记本电脑连接

接下来，我用笔记本电脑通过蓝牙连接了卡拉OK机器。

整个过程同样很顺利，没有太大难度。我播放音乐后，仔细比较了一下音质。

让我有点意外的是：手机和电脑在蓝牙模式下的音质差别并不大。两者都属于压缩音频传输，整体表现非常接近。

这让我意识到，对于日常家庭卡拉OK来说，蓝牙连接更多是“方便性”的选择，而不是音质的决定因素。

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🔌 更好的音质来自有线连接

后来我了解到，如果想要更好的音质，其实真正的提升来自AUX有线连接，而不是蓝牙。

有线连接的优点包括：

• 声音更清晰
• 低音更稳定
• 几乎没有延迟

不过目前我还没有采用这种方式，因为我更倾向于简单、灵活的使用体验。

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🎚️ 关键发现：麦克风与回音设置才是重点

经过多次调整，我发现真正影响卡拉OK体验的，不是连接设备，而是声音的平衡设置。

我总结出三个关键参数：

• 🎵 音乐音量：60%–70%
• 🎤 麦克风音量：50%–60%
• 🌫️ 回音（Echo）：30%–40%

回音太大，会显得声音模糊；回音太小，又缺少“舞台感”。找到合适的平衡点，才是关键。

这是我这次体验中最大的收获之一。

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🎯 最后的选择

经过比较手机和电脑之后，我最终决定：

👉 目前继续使用手机连接卡拉OK机器。

原因很简单：

• 操作最方便
• 连接最稳定
• 音质差别不大
• 可以把注意力放在唱歌上，而不是设备设置

有时候，简单反而是最好的选择。

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🎤 最后的感想

这次小小的尝试让我明白了一件事：科技的意义，是让生活更轻松，而不是更复杂。

我并不需要“最完美”的设置，我只需要一个让我可以轻松唱歌、享受音乐的系统。

目前，我的卡拉OK旅程，就是手机 + 无线麦克风 + 一点简单的调音。

这样，就已经很好了。

A Proud Grandpa’s Journey: Celebrating Ayden’s 4×100 Relay Victory

There are moments in a grandparent’s life that fill the heart with immense pride, and this week brought one of those special moments for Grandma and me. 🏆😊

Our grandson, Ayden, recently competed in an inter-school athletics competition and helped his school win the trophy in the 4×100-meter relay race. Competing against students from six different schools, Ayden and his teammates demonstrated outstanding teamwork, determination, and athletic ability to achieve this wonderful victory.

As grandparents, we know that success in sports is about much more than crossing the finish line first. It is about the hours of practice, the discipline to keep improving, the willingness to work together as a team, and the courage to give your best effort when it matters most. Ayden’s achievement reflects all of these qualities.

Watching young people grow and develop their talents is one of the greatest joys of being a grandparent. Every accomplishment, whether big or small, represents a step forward in their journey. Ayden’s relay victory is a reminder that hard work and perseverance truly do pay off.

We are incredibly proud of him, not only for winning the trophy but also for the character he displayed along the way. Team sports teach valuable life lessons—cooperation, trust, commitment, and resilience. These lessons will serve him well both on the track and in life.

Our message to Ayden is simple: keep up the good work. Continue striving for excellence in both sports and academics. Enjoy the process of learning, growing, and challenging yourself. Remember that success comes from consistent effort, maintaining a positive attitude, and never giving up when faced with obstacles.

Grandma and I will always be cheering from the sidelines, celebrating every milestone and encouraging every new adventure. We look forward to hearing about many more achievements in the years ahead.

Congratulations once again, Ayden. Your victory has brought great joy to our family, and we are very proud of you.

With love,

Grandpa and Grandma

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自豪爺爺的旅程：慶祝 Ayden 榮獲 4×100 米接力賽冠軍

在祖父母的人生旅程中，總有一些時刻會讓人感到無比驕傲，而這個星期就迎來了這樣一個特別的時刻。

我們的孫兒 Ayden 最近代表學校參加了一場校際田徑比賽，並與隊友攜手奪得了 4×100 米接力賽冠軍獎盃。這次比賽共有六所學校參與競逐，Ayden 和他的隊友們憑藉出色的團隊合作精神、堅定的意志力和優秀的運動表現，成功取得了這項令人欣喜的成績。

作為祖父母，我們深知運動場上的成功不僅僅是率先衝過終點線那麼簡單。它代表著無數次的練習、持續進步的自律、與隊友攜手合作的精神，以及在關鍵時刻全力以赴的勇氣。Ayden 的成就正正體現了這些寶貴的品質。

看著年輕一代不斷成長、發掘自己的潛能，是身為祖父母最大的快樂之一。每一項成就，不論大小，都是人生旅程中的重要一步。Ayden 的接力賽勝利再次提醒我們：只要願意努力和堅持，付出終會得到回報。

我們為他感到無比自豪，不僅因為他贏得了獎盃，更因為他在過程中展現出的品格與態度。團隊運動能夠教導孩子許多寶貴的人生課題，例如合作、信任、承擔責任以及面對挑戰時的堅韌精神。這些品質將陪伴他走過未來的人生道路，無論是在運動場上還是在生活之中。

我們想對 Ayden 說：

繼續努力，保持這份熱情與幹勁。無論是在體育運動還是在學業方面，都要勇敢追求卓越。享受學習與成長的過程，不斷挑戰自己，發掘更多可能性。請記住，成功來自持之以恆的努力、積極樂觀的態度，以及面對困難時永不放棄的精神。

奶奶和我會一直在場邊為你加油，分享你的喜悅，支持你的每一次嘗試與冒險。我們期待未來聽到更多屬於你的精彩故事和成就。

再次恭喜你，Ayden！

你的勝利為我們一家人帶來了無比的喜悅與驕傲。我們以你為榮。

滿懷愛意，

爺爺和奶奶

The Kitchen Was Packed, and Our Hearts Were Full

 今天女兒一家來家裡探望我們，還特地為我們準備午餐。這是 Ayden 第一次嘗試煮麵。Sam 站在他身旁，耐心地一步一步指導，而 Hailey 也加入了這場廚房行動。

不一會兒，我們的廚房便充滿了忙碌的身影、歡樂的笑聲，以及鍋碗瓢盆交織出的烹飪樂章。

午餐的菜單很簡單：午餐肉湯麵、太陽蛋，以及新鮮的白菜。雖然不是什麼豪華大餐，但因為每一道食物都充滿了用心與愛，所以吃起來格外美味。

Sam 的廚房小課堂

在準備午餐的過程中，Sam 不只是下廚，更像是一位耐心的老師，一步一步帶領 Ayden 和 Hailey 學習烹飪的基本技巧：

• 🥬 教導他們如何清洗白菜，一片一片地沖洗乾淨，確保沒有泥沙殘留。
• 💧 示範如何把水煮沸，並掌握適當的時間將白菜放入鍋中燙熟。
• 🥫 教他們如何安全地打開午餐肉（Spam）罐頭。
• 🔪 指導他們將午餐肉切成均勻的薄片，學習正確的切割方法。
• 🍳 示範如何小心地敲開雞蛋，避免蛋殼掉進鍋裡。
• 🍳 教導他們如何煎出漂亮的太陽蛋，控制火候和時間。
• 🍜 一起將煮好的麵條、白菜、午餐肉和雞蛋擺盤組合。
• 🍽️ 最後由 Ayden 和 Hailey 將熱騰騰的菜餚端上餐桌，為爺爺和奶奶送上他們親手準備的午餐。

對 Julie 和我來說，這不僅是一頓午餐，更是一堂生動的家庭生活課。我們看到孩子們在學習中成長，在合作中建立信心，也感受到 Sam 作為父親耐心教導下一代的用心。

這樣的時光，遠比一頓美味的午餐更加珍貴。 ❤️👨‍🍳👧👦👴👵

對 Julie 和我來說，最大的快樂其實並不只是食物本身，而是看著孫兒孫女在學習新技能、彼此合作幫忙，以及一家人聚在一起共享美好時光。

午餐結束後，我告訴他們，隨時歡迎再來家裡下廚做飯給我們吃。他們笑著答應，並承諾在暑假期間會再來探望我們。

麵很好吃，但家人相聚的時光更令人回味。

有時候，退休生活中最幸福的時刻，並不是來自盛大的活動或特別的慶典，而是在一個擠滿了摯愛家人的廚房裡，分享平凡卻珍貴的溫暖時光。

Today our daughter's family came over and decided to make lunch for us. It was Ayden's first attempt at cooking noodles. Sam stood beside him, patiently showing him each step, while Hailey joined the action. Soon our kitchen was packed with activity, laughter, and the sounds of cooking.

Sam's Kitchen Lesson

As lunch was being prepared, Sam was not just cooking—he was also teaching. Step by step, he guided Ayden and Hailey through the process, turning a simple meal into a valuable learning experience.

• 🥬 He showed them how to wash the bok choy carefully, making sure each leaf was clean and free of dirt.
• 💧 He explained how to bring water to a boil and when to add the vegetables for cooking.
• 🥫 He taught them how to safely open a can of Spam.
• 🔪 He demonstrated how to slice the Spam into thin, even pieces.
• 🍳 He showed them how to crack eggs carefully without getting shells into the pan.
• 🍳 He guided them on how to cook sunny-side-up eggs and control the heat properly.
• 🍜 Together, they prepared the noodles and combined them with the bok choy, Spam, and eggs.
• 🍽️ Finally, Ayden and Hailey helped carry the finished dishes to the dining table and proudly served lunch to Grandma and Grandpa.

For Julie and me, this was much more than a meal. It was a chance to watch our grandchildren learn practical life skills, work together as a team, and gain confidence through hands-on experience.

We were also touched to see Sam patiently passing on his knowledge to the next generation. Moments like these remind us that some of life's most valuable lessons are taught not in a classroom, but in a family kitchen.

The menu was simple: soup noodles with stir-fried Spam slices, sunny-side-up eggs, and fresh bok choy. Nothing fancy, but everything tasted wonderful because it was made with care.

For Julie and me, the greatest joy was not the food itself. It was watching our grandchildren learn, helping one another, and spending time together as a family.

When lunch was over, I told them they were welcome to come back and cook for us anytime. They smiled and promised to visit again during the summer vacation.

The noodles were good. The family time was even better.

Sometimes the happiest moments in retirement are not found in grand events, but in a busy kitchen filled with people we love.

❤️🍜👨‍🍳👩‍🍳👴👵

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From Good Morning Messages to Artificial Intelligence: How WhatsApp Is Changing for Seniors

 For many seniors, WhatsApp began as a simple communication tool.

A family member installed it on our phones and showed us how to send messages, share photos, and make calls. Soon, our mornings became filled with cheerful greetings, inspirational quotes, flowers, sunrises, and the occasional joke from friends and relatives.

The familiar "Good Morning" message became a daily ritual.

But something interesting is happening.

WhatsApp is quietly evolving into much more than a messaging app.

Today, it is becoming a platform that incorporates artificial intelligence (AI), helping users find information, create content, communicate more effectively, and stay connected in new ways.

Many seniors may not even realize that they are already witnessing the early stages of AI integration into one of the apps they use every day.

The Evolution of WhatsApp

When WhatsApp first became popular, its main functions were straightforward:

• Text messaging

• Photo sharing

• Voice messages

• Voice calls

• Video calls

• Group chats

These features alone transformed how families communicated across cities, countries, and continents.

Grandparents could see grandchildren through video calls. Friends could organize gatherings without making dozens of phone calls. Travel groups could share photos instantly.

For many retirees, WhatsApp became an essential part of daily life.

Now, a new chapter is beginning.

Enter Artificial Intelligence

Artificial intelligence is gradually being integrated into WhatsApp through features such as Meta AI and other AI-powered tools.

Instead of opening a search engine, users can ask questions directly within the app.

For example:

• What is an ETF?

• How do I cook salmon?

• Translate this message into Chinese.

• Explain inflation in simple terms.

• Suggest ideas for a family reunion.

In many cases, AI can provide immediate answers without leaving the conversation.

This represents a significant shift.

WhatsApp is moving from being a communication platform to becoming an information and assistance platform.

AI as a Learning Companion

One of the most promising aspects of AI for seniors is lifelong learning.

Retirement does not mean the end of learning. In fact, many retirees finally have time to explore subjects they never had time for during their working years.

AI can help answer questions about:

• Technology

• Travel

• Health and wellness

• History

• Languages

• Personal finance

• Hobbies

Instead of feeling intimidated by complex topics, seniors can ask questions in plain language and receive explanations tailored to their level of understanding.

Curiosity no longer requires technical expertise.

Breaking Language Barriers

Many seniors maintain relationships with friends and family around the world.

Language differences can sometimes create challenges.

AI-powered translation tools are helping bridge these gaps.

Whether communicating in English, Chinese, French, Spanish, or many other languages, AI can assist with:

• Translation

• Grammar correction

• Writing assistance

• Language learning

This creates new opportunities for meaningful communication across cultures and generations.

Practical Uses for Everyday Life

The combination of WhatsApp and AI can support daily activities in surprising ways.

Imagine asking AI to:

• Draft a birthday greeting

• Summarize a long conversation

• Suggest travel destinations

• Explain a medical term

• Generate ideas for a community event

• Help write a blog post

These tasks, which once required multiple apps or websites, may eventually be handled within a single platform.

For seniors, convenience matters.

The simpler technology becomes, the more useful it becomes.

The Human Side Still Matters

While AI offers exciting possibilities, it is important to remember that technology is a tool, not a replacement for human relationships.

A video call with grandchildren is still more meaningful than an AI-generated image.

A lunch with old classmates is still more enjoyable than a virtual conversation.

A friendly chat after a ping pong game remains one of life's simple pleasures.

AI can help us communicate and learn, but it cannot replace genuine friendship, family bonds, and shared experiences.

Looking Ahead

The future of technology will likely bring even more AI features into everyday applications.

For younger generations, this may seem ordinary.

For seniors, it is a remarkable transformation.

Many of us grew up with rotary telephones, handwritten letters, and printed encyclopedias. We have witnessed the arrival of personal computers, the internet, smartphones, and now artificial intelligence.

What once seemed like science fiction is becoming part of daily life.

The journey from sending "Good Morning" messages to chatting with AI assistants inside WhatsApp illustrates how quickly technology continues to evolve.

The encouraging news is that seniors do not need to become technology experts.

All we need is a willingness to stay curious, keep learning, and remain open to new possibilities.

After all, learning has no age limit.

And perhaps the next exciting discovery is only one message away.

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從「早安問候」到 AI 助手：WhatsApp 的悄然轉變

對許多長者來說，WhatsApp 最初只是一個簡單的通訊工具。

家人幫我們把它安裝到手機裡，教我們如何發送訊息、分享照片和撥打電話。不久之後，我們的早晨便充滿了親友傳來的問候、勵志語錄、鮮花圖片、美麗日出，以及偶爾出現的幽默笑話。

熟悉的「早安」訊息，逐漸成為每天的生活儀式。

但有一件有趣的事情正在發生。

WhatsApp 正悄悄地演變成遠不止是一個通訊應用程式。

如今，它正在逐步成為一個融入人工智能（AI）的平台，幫助使用者尋找資訊、創作內容、更有效地溝通，以及以全新的方式保持聯繫。

許多長者或許還沒有意識到，他們其實已經正在見證 AI 技術逐步融入自己每天使用的應用程式之中。

WhatsApp 的演變

當 WhatsApp 剛開始流行時，它的主要功能相當簡單：

• 文字訊息

• 照片分享

• 語音訊息

• 語音通話

• 視像通話

• 群組聊天

僅憑這些功能，就徹底改變了家庭成員之間跨城市、跨國家，甚至跨洲際的溝通方式。

祖父母可以透過視像通話看見孫兒孫女的笑臉；朋友們可以輕鬆安排聚會，而不必逐一打電話聯絡；旅遊團成員則能即時分享旅途中的照片和見聞。

對許多退休人士而言，WhatsApp 已成為日常生活中不可或缺的一部分。

而現在，一個新的篇章正在展開。

AI 時代的來臨

人工智能正透過 Meta AI 及其他 AI 功能，逐步整合到 WhatsApp 之中。

使用者不再需要打開搜尋引擎，而可以直接在 WhatsApp 內提出問題。

例如：

• ETF（交易所買賣基金）是什麼？

• 三文魚應該怎樣烹調？

• 請把這段訊息翻譯成中文。

• 用簡單方式解釋什麼是通貨膨脹。

• 幫我想一些家庭聚會的活動點子。

在許多情況下，AI 都能即時提供答案，而無需離開當前對話。

這是一個重要的轉變。

WhatsApp 正從一個通訊平台，逐漸發展成一個資訊與協助平台。

AI 作為學習夥伴

對長者而言，AI 最令人期待的其中一個功能，就是協助終身學習。

退休並不代表學習的結束。事實上，許多退休人士終於有時間探索那些在工作時期無暇深入了解的領域。

AI 可以協助解答有關以下方面的問題：

• 科技

• 旅遊

• 健康與養生

• 歷史

• 語言

• 個人理財

• 興趣愛好

過去令人感到複雜或困難的課題，如今只需用簡單的語言提問，AI 便能按照個人的理解程度提供解釋。

好奇心不再需要專業技術作為門檻。

打破語言隔閡

許多長者都與世界各地的親友保持聯繫。

語言差異有時會帶來溝通上的困難。

而 AI 翻譯工具正逐步幫助人們跨越這些障礙。

無論是英文、中文、法文、西班牙文，還是其他語言，AI 都能協助：

• 翻譯內容

• 修正文法

• 協助寫作

• 學習語言

這為跨文化、跨世代的交流創造了更多可能性。

日常生活中的實際應用

WhatsApp 與 AI 的結合，能夠在許多日常活動中提供意想不到的幫助。

想像一下，你可以請 AI：

• 草擬生日祝福語

• 總結冗長的對話內容

• 推薦旅遊目的地

• 解釋醫學名詞

• 提供社區活動創意

• 協助撰寫部落格文章

過去需要使用多個網站或應用程式才能完成的事情，未來很可能都能在同一個平台內完成。

對長者而言，便利性十分重要。

科技越簡單，就越容易發揮它的價值。

人與人之間的情感依然最重要

雖然 AI 帶來了許多令人興奮的可能性，但我們也必須記住：

科技始終只是工具，而不是人際關係的替代品。

與孫兒孫女進行一次視像通話，仍然比 AI 生成的圖片更有意義。

與老同學共進午餐，仍然比虛擬聊天更加愉快。

打一場乒乓球後與朋友閒聊幾句，依然是人生中最簡單而珍貴的快樂之一。

AI 能幫助我們溝通與學習，但無法取代真正的友誼、親情與共同經歷。

展望未來

未來的科技發展，很可能會把更多 AI 功能融入我們每天使用的應用程式之中。

對年輕一代而言，這或許是再普通不過的事情。

但對長者來說，這是一場令人驚嘆的變革。

我們許多人是在旋轉撥號電話、手寫信件和紙本百科全書的年代成長的。

我們見證了個人電腦的出現、互聯網的普及、智能手機的誕生，以及如今人工智能的快速發展。

曾經只存在於科幻小說中的情景，如今正逐漸成為日常生活的一部分。

從每天傳送「早安」問候，到在 WhatsApp 內與 AI 助手對話，正好說明了科技演變的速度有多麼驚人。

令人鼓舞的是，長者並不需要成為科技專家。

我們所需要的，只是保持好奇心，持續學習，並願意接受新的可能性。

畢竟，

學習從來沒有年齡限制。

而下一個令人驚喜的發現，也許就在下一則訊息之中。

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Rouge Woods 的早晨：乒乓球、簡單早餐，還有關於電動車的大討論

 6月2日早晨，是那種很普通，但回想起來卻讓人覺得舒服的一天。

我和 Julie 去了 Rouge Woods 打乒乓球。在開始運動之前，我們先去了 Golden Horse Café 吃早餐。沒有特別講究，就是簡單實在的一餐：一碗沙嗲牛肉米粉，再加一個吞拿魚三文治。熱熱的、飽足的，剛好為早上的活動提供足夠能量。

輕鬆的一場球

今天的乒乓球大約打了 40 分鐘。

時間不長，但節奏很好。

身體狀態有一點改善，感覺比平時輕鬆一些。不過雙腿的力量仍然不太足夠，快速移動還是有點吃力。

所以我選擇不勉強自己。

打法變得比較簡單，專注於控制，把球穩穩地打回去，而不是追求速度或強攻。

這樣的打法，沒有壓力，也更容易享受過程。

不是比賽，而是維持運動的節奏。

球與球之間的聊天

更有趣的部分，其實是在打球之間的聊天。

我們談到了電動車，特別是 BYD 和 Tesla。

這個話題現在越來越常出現在日常生活中。

幾年前，電動車還只是少數人的興趣話題，但現在已經進入大眾討論，甚至在乒乓球場裡也會聊起來。

大家都在比較價格、功能、設計，以及未來發展。

隨著 BYD 等品牌進入加拿大市場，競爭變得更加明顯，也讓人更期待市場接下來的變化。

很有意思的是，一場輕鬆的乒乓球活動，竟然也能延伸到全球科技與汽車產業的討論。

一個簡單卻充實的早晨

回頭看今天，其實沒有什麼特別的大事發生。

沒有驚喜，也沒有挑戰。

只是早餐、運動、聊天，還有對未來科技的一點想像。

但有時候，正是這種平凡的日子，才讓人感覺踏實。

身體輕鬆一點。
節奏慢一點。
有人一起打球。
有朋友可以聊天。

生活不需要每天都精彩，但可以每天都真實。

而像今天這樣的早晨，已經足夠好。

A Morning at Rouge Woods: Ping Pong, Simple Meals, and Big Conversations About EVs

June 2 morning started the way many good days often do—simple, unplanned, and quietly satisfying.

Julie and I went to Rouge Woods for our usual ping pong session. But before that, we stopped at Golden Horse Café for breakfast. Nothing fancy, just honest food that does the job: a bowl of satay beef rice noodles and a tuna sandwich. Warm, filling, and enough fuel for whatever the morning would bring.

A Gentle Game, Not a Hard Battle

The ping pong session lasted about 40 minutes.

Not a long session, but enough to feel the rhythm of the game again.

Today was interesting because my body felt a bit different. The energy level was slightly better than usual, and I felt lighter overall. But at the same time, my legs were still not strong enough for fast movements.

So I didn’t push too hard.

Instead, I played it smart—kept things simple, focused on control, and tried to keep the ball on the table rather than chasing difficult shots.

It wasn’t about winning or intensity. It was about staying in the game and enjoying the movement.

And that, in its own way, is still a good session.

Conversations Between Rallies

What made the morning even more enjoyable was the conversation between games.

We ended up talking about electric vehicles—especially BYD and Tesla. That topic seems to be everywhere these days.

The prices, the features, the design improvements—it was all quite exciting. Not long ago, EVs felt like a niche topic. Now they are becoming part of everyday conversation, even in a ping pong hall.

There was a shared feeling that the market is changing quickly, and competition is heating up. When new players like BYD enter more strongly into places like Canada, it naturally sparks curiosity. People compare, question, and look forward to what comes next.

It’s interesting how a casual sports morning can turn into a discussion about global technology trends.

A Simple Kind of Morning

Looking back, nothing extraordinary happened today.

No big event. No major achievement.

Just breakfast, a bit of ping pong, friendly conversation, and thoughts about the future of cars.

But sometimes, that is exactly what makes a day meaningful.

A light body.
A slower pace.
A shared game.
A good conversation.

Life doesn’t always need to be loud to feel full.

And somehow, on mornings like this, everything feels connected—the food we eat, the games we play, and even the technologies we talk about.

All of it becomes part of the same journey.

A simple morning at Rouge Woods, but still a very good one.

生命如此脆弱——在聽到噩耗之後的反思

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昨晚，我們從教會朋友那裡聽到了一個非常令人難過的消息。

在萬錦—Unionville 於人村一帶，有兩位長者在一場火災中不幸離世。其中一位，正是我們堂區一位相識多年的老朋友。這個消息讓很多認識他們的人都感到十分沉重。

對Julie和我來說，這份感受更加深刻。因為不久之前，Julie也曾失去一位在水中意外離世的朋友。如今，又一位朋友因火災離開了我們。

當這些事情在短時間內接連發生時，人會不自覺地產生一種很深的感觸：

生命真的很脆弱。

我們常常忽略的現實

在日常生活中，我們大多時候都在忙著自己的節奏——去商場散步、與朋友見面、一起吃飯、參加教會活動——一切看似平穩而正常。

但當這些突如其來的消息出現時，我們才會意識到，生活其實並不如我們想像中那樣穩定。

一切都可能在一瞬間改變，沒有預兆。

記憶與關係所留下的痕跡

當認識的人離開時，我們失去的不只是“消息中的一個名字”，而是曾經一起生活過的片段。

那些見面時的笑容、簡單的問候、教會裡的相遇，都成為無法再重複的回憶。

我們真正擁有的是什麼

在這樣的時刻，我開始更常思考：

我們真正留下的是什麼？

也許不是事件本身，而是：

• 曾經的回憶

• 曾經的友情

• 曾經的關心與善意

這些才是真正留在心裡的東西。

溫柔的提醒

這些經歷帶來的，不應只是悲傷或恐懼，而是一種更深的覺察。

提醒我們：

• 珍惜身邊的人

• 不要拖延關心與問候

• 在還能聯繫的時候，多一點交流

• 更珍惜當下的每一天

我們無法掌控生命的長短與變化，但可以選擇如何度過當下的每一刻。

結語

寫下這些文字時，我再次感受到，社區、教會、朋友、家人之間的連結，是多麼重要。

生命的意義，並不只在於長短，而在於我們曾經與誰同行，曾經如何彼此關懷。

願離開我們的朋友安息，也願我們繼續珍惜仍然在身邊的人與時光。

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Life Is So Fragile — Reflections After Hearing Sad News

Yesterday evening, we received very sad news from our church community.

Two seniors in the Unionville–Markham area lost their lives in a fire. One of them was a long-time friend in our parish. This news deeply affected many of us, especially those who knew them personally.

For Julie and me, it was especially emotional. Not long ago, Julie also lost a friend in a water-related accident. Now, another loss has come through fire.

When these events happen close together, it brings a very quiet but powerful realization:

Life is fragile.

We often go through our daily routines—walking at the mall, meeting friends, sharing meals, attending church—feeling that life is stable and predictable. But moments like this remind us that everything can change suddenly, without warning.

The Reality We Do Not Always Think About

We usually try not to dwell on sadness. That is natural. Life must continue.

But when someone we know passes away unexpectedly, especially within our own community, it becomes more personal. It is no longer just “news.” It becomes a reminder of faces we have seen, conversations we have had, and shared moments that can never be repeated.

What Remains With Us

In times like this, I find myself thinking less about the events themselves, and more about what remains.

What remains are memories.
What remains are friendships.
What remains is the kindness we shared when we were together.

These are the things that quietly stay with us.

A Gentle Reminder

Perhaps the most important lesson is not fear, but awareness.

To appreciate the people around us.
To take time for simple conversations.
To not delay kindness or connection.
To value the present moment more deeply.

We cannot control life’s uncertainty. But we can choose how we live each day within it.

Closing Thought

As I write this, I realize again how important community is—friends at church, walking companions, family, and those we meet in everyday life.

In the end, life is not measured only by its length, but by the connections we build along the way.

May those we lost rest in peace, and may we continue to cherish the time we have with one another.

從搬運庭院石塊到搬運新的想法

 前幾天，Sam 和 Alison 幫忙安排修復家中庭院（Patio）的問題。

經過多年風吹雨打，部分庭院石塊出現移位和高低不平的情況。隨著雨季即將來臨，排水問題也開始令人擔心。幸好在他們迅速安排下，庭院石塊重新鋪設整齊，並調整成適當的斜度，讓雨水能順利流離房屋基礎。

Julie 和我都感到十分安心，也由衷感謝他們的幫助。

當我看著修復完成的庭院時，思緒不禁回到了十年前。

那時候，家裡大部分的園藝和庭院工程，都是由我親手完成的。

我還記得自己到 Home Depot 購買庭院石塊，然後用我的 Isuzu 四驅車把它們載回家。回到家後，再一塊一塊地從車上搬下來，慢慢運送到後院和側院鋪設。

每一塊石頭都不輕，但那時候的我有的是體力和耐力。雖然進度不快，卻能一步一步完成整個工程。

當時，這只是生活中的一項普通家務。

如今再回想起來，卻彷彿是人生另一個階段的故事。

說實話，現在的我已經沒有能力再搬起一塊庭院石了。

即使是修剪灌木、整理花園，甚至修剪一些較矮的小樹，也不像從前那麼輕鬆。

隨著年紀增長，身體會誠實地告訴我們許多事情。

力量減少了，耐力下降了，恢復速度也慢了。

如果只專注於那些「以前能做、現在做不到」的事情，難免會感到失落。

但這些年來，我慢慢學會了一件事：

變老並不只是失去。

變老同時也是學習選擇。

與其勉強自己和歲月對抗，不如根據自己的體力和狀況，選擇適合自己的活動。

其實，生活中仍然有許多值得享受的事情。

寫部落格是其中之一。

學習新知識也是其中之一。

無論是探索人工智慧、研究新科技、閱讀世界各地的新聞、學習新的技能，還是把自己的故事和人生經驗分享給朋友和讀者，這些事情都讓我的腦袋保持活躍，讓我對世界繼續充滿好奇心。

某種程度上來說，

我只是把搬運庭院石塊的工作，換成了搬運新的想法。

雖然形式不同，但那份完成一件事情後的滿足感卻十分相似。

從前，完成一個庭院工程會讓我感到自豪。

如今，完成一篇部落格文章，也能帶給我同樣的喜悅。

從前，美化的是自己的後院。

現在，滋養的是自己的心靈。

年齡增長並不代表人生旅程結束。

它只是意味著旅程正在改變方向。

只要我們願意繼續學習、繼續分享、繼續保持好奇心，前方依然有許多值得探索的風景。

而這一點，正是我最感恩的地方。

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From Lifting Patio Stones to Lifting Ideas

A few days ago, Sam and Alison kindly arranged to have our patio problem fixed.

Over time, some of the patio stones had shifted and become uneven. With the rainy season approaching, water drainage was becoming a concern. Thanks to their prompt action, the patio stones are now properly aligned with a gentle slope that directs rainwater away from the house. Julie and I feel much safer and are truly grateful for their help.

As I looked at the newly repaired patio, my mind drifted back about ten years.

At that time, I was the one doing much of the gardening and landscaping work around our home. I remember buying patio stones from Home Depot and loading them into my Isuzu 4x4 SUV. After driving home, I unloaded them one by one and carried them to the backyard and side yard. Each stone was heavy, but I worked patiently, taking my time and completing the project piece by piece.

Back then, it was simply another home improvement job.

Today, it feels like a different chapter of life.

The truth is that I can no longer lift a patio stone. Even trimming shrubs or pruning small trees requires more effort than before. As we age, our bodies send us clear messages. The strength, stamina, and recovery time we once took for granted gradually change.

At first, it is easy to focus on what we can no longer do.

But I have learned that aging is not only about giving things up. It is also about choosing wisely.

Instead of fighting against reality, I try to select activities that match my current energy and abilities. There are still many things I can do and enjoy.

Blogging is one of them.

Learning new things is another.

Whether it is exploring artificial intelligence, improving my writing, learning about technology, reading about world events, or simply sharing life stories with friends and readers, these activities keep my mind active and curious.

In a way, I have traded lifting patio stones for lifting ideas.

The work is different, but the satisfaction is surprisingly similar.

A completed patio once gave me a sense of accomplishment. Today, a finished blog post gives me that same feeling. A successful gardening project once brightened my backyard. Now, learning something new brightens my day.

Growing older does not mean the journey is over.

It simply means the journey changes direction.

And as long as we continue to learn, share, and stay curious, there are still many rewarding paths ahead.

For that, I am thankful.

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充滿友情與美食的乒乓球好友聚餐

 昨天又是與乒乓球好友們共度的一個美好日子。

我們當中有些人剛從紅樹林社區中心打完乒乓球直接前來，有些人則在上午到 Oak Ridges 一帶健行後趕來會合。到了中午，大家齊聚位於 Stouffville Road 與 Yonge Street 附近的米之華餐廳（Mizhi Hua Cafeteria），一張十二人的大圓桌早已預留妥當。

作為長者，我們常說：「運動讓我們保持健康，友情讓我們保持快樂。」而昨天的聚會，正好兩者兼備。

一道道佳餚陸續上桌，令人目不暇給。

我們點了五和菜，再加上三道大家喜愛的招牌菜，包括：

• 白灼鮮蝦
• 海南雞配薑蓉醬
• 洋蔥炒牛肉
• 炸美極貴妃魚
• 乾炒牛河
• 咕嚕肉
• 蒜蓉四季豆
• 鹹魚雞粒炒飯

每一道菜的份量都非常驚人，感覺不像普通的午餐聚會，更像是一場豐盛的宴席。

令我們印象深刻的不僅是份量，還有出色的品質。鮮蝦爽甜鮮美，雞肉嫩滑可口，貴妃魚外脆內嫩，而炒牛肉更帶著大廚功力十足的鑊氣，令人食指大動。

當然，正如許多老朋友聚會一樣，美食只是吸引我們的一部分原因。

真正的重點，還是在於彼此的交流與分享。

圍坐在圓桌旁的朋友們來自不同背景，有著不同的人生故事。有人分享最近的健行見聞，有人談論家庭、孫兒孫女和旅遊計劃，而乒乓球自然也是熱門話題之一。席間笑聲不斷，大家互相打趣，分享生活中的點點滴滴。

當我環顧整張桌子時，心中不禁有所感悟：退休生活並不只是擁有更多空閒時間，更重要的是有機會與那些已成為生活一部分的朋友們，共同享受珍貴而有意義的時光。

我們當中許多人最初因乒乓球而結識，但隨著時間推移，友情早已超越了球桌上的競技。我們一起慶祝生日、共進午餐、相約健行、在 WhatsApp 群組裡交流訊息，也彼此關心照應。

昨天的美食確實非常出色。

但朋友們的陪伴更加難能可貴。

午餐結束時，大家都帶著滿足的胃和愉快的心情離開。

有時候，人生中最大的快樂並不是昂貴的旅遊，也不是盛大的活動，而是在一個平凡的下午，圍坐在圓桌旁，與好友分享美食、故事和真摯的友誼。

而昨天，正是這樣一個美好的下午。

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從照片看來，這真是一桌色香味俱全的佳餚！十二位老友圍桌而坐，一邊享受美食，一邊分享近況，這正是退休生活中最珍貴的幸福時光。🍤🏓😊

A Ping Pong Gathering Filled with Friendship and Good Food

Yesterday was another wonderful day with our ping pong friends.

Some of us came directly from the Rouge Woods community centre after playing ping pong, while others had spent the morning hiking around the Oak Ridges area. By noon, everyone gathered at MizhiHua Cafeteria near Stouffville Road and Yonge Street, where a table for twelve had already been reserved.

As seniors, we often say that exercise keeps us healthy, but friendship keeps us happy. Yesterday's gathering had plenty of both.

The food arrived one dish after another.

We ordered five "wo chai" (house specialty dishes) and added several favorites, including:

• Fresh boiled shrimp
• Hainan-style chicken with ginger sauce
• Stir-fried beef with onions
• Deep-fried Maggie Kwaifei fish
• Stir-fried beef with rice noodles
• Sweet and sour pork
• Garlic green beans
• Stir fried Salted fish minced chicken with rice

The portions were enormous. Every dish that arrived looked like it was meant for a banquet rather than a simple lunch gathering.

What impressed us most was not only the quantity but also the quality. The shrimp were fresh, the chicken was tender, the fish was crispy on the outside and moist inside, and the stir-fried beef carried that wonderful wok aroma that only experienced chefs can create.

Of course, as with most gatherings among old friends, the food was only part of the attraction.

The real highlight was the conversation.

Around the table were friends from different backgrounds and walks of life. Some were discussing recent hiking adventures. Others talked about family, grandchildren, travel plans, and, naturally, ping pong. There was plenty of laughter, good-natured teasing, and storytelling.

As I looked around the table, I was reminded that retirement is not simply about having more free time. It is about having the opportunity to enjoy meaningful moments with people who have become part of our daily lives.

Many of us first met through ping pong. Over time, however, the friendship grew beyond the game. We now celebrate birthdays together, share meals, go hiking, exchange messages in WhatsApp groups, and look out for one another.

The food yesterday was excellent.

The company was even better.

By the end of lunch, everyone left with a full stomach and a happy heart.

Sometimes the greatest pleasures in life are not expensive vacations or grand events. They are simple afternoons spent sharing good food, good stories, and good friendship around a round table.

And yesterday was one of those afternoons.

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