前幾天,Sam 和 Alison 幫忙安排修復家中庭院(Patio)的問題。
經過多年風吹雨打,部分庭院石塊出現移位和高低不平的情況。隨著雨季即將來臨,排水問題也開始令人擔心。幸好在他們迅速安排下,庭院石塊重新鋪設整齊,並調整成適當的斜度,讓雨水能順利流離房屋基礎。
Julie 和我都感到十分安心,也由衷感謝他們的幫助。
當我看著修復完成的庭院時,思緒不禁回到了十年前。
那時候,家裡大部分的園藝和庭院工程,都是由我親手完成的。
我還記得自己到 Home Depot 購買庭院石塊,然後用我的 Isuzu 四驅車把它們載回家。回到家後,再一塊一塊地從車上搬下來,慢慢運送到後院和側院鋪設。
每一塊石頭都不輕,但那時候的我有的是體力和耐力。雖然進度不快,卻能一步一步完成整個工程。
當時,這只是生活中的一項普通家務。
如今再回想起來,卻彷彿是人生另一個階段的故事。
說實話,現在的我已經沒有能力再搬起一塊庭院石了。
即使是修剪灌木、整理花園,甚至修剪一些較矮的小樹,也不像從前那麼輕鬆。
隨著年紀增長,身體會誠實地告訴我們許多事情。
力量減少了,耐力下降了,恢復速度也慢了。
如果只專注於那些「以前能做、現在做不到」的事情,難免會感到失落。
但這些年來,我慢慢學會了一件事:
變老並不只是失去。
變老同時也是學習選擇。
與其勉強自己和歲月對抗,不如根據自己的體力和狀況,選擇適合自己的活動。
其實,生活中仍然有許多值得享受的事情。
寫部落格是其中之一。
學習新知識也是其中之一。
無論是探索人工智慧、研究新科技、閱讀世界各地的新聞、學習新的技能,還是把自己的故事和人生經驗分享給朋友和讀者,這些事情都讓我的腦袋保持活躍,讓我對世界繼續充滿好奇心。
某種程度上來說,
我只是把搬運庭院石塊的工作,換成了搬運新的想法。
雖然形式不同,但那份完成一件事情後的滿足感卻十分相似。
從前,完成一個庭院工程會讓我感到自豪。
如今,完成一篇部落格文章,也能帶給我同樣的喜悅。
從前,美化的是自己的後院。
現在,滋養的是自己的心靈。
年齡增長並不代表人生旅程結束。
它只是意味著旅程正在改變方向。
只要我們願意繼續學習、繼續分享、繼續保持好奇心,前方依然有許多值得探索的風景。
而這一點,正是我最感恩的地方。
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From Lifting Patio Stones to Lifting Ideas
A few days ago, Sam and Alison kindly arranged to have our patio problem fixed.
Over time, some of the patio stones had shifted and become uneven. With the rainy season approaching, water drainage was becoming a concern. Thanks to their prompt action, the patio stones are now properly aligned with a gentle slope that directs rainwater away from the house. Julie and I feel much safer and are truly grateful for their help.
As I looked at the newly repaired patio, my mind drifted back about ten years.
At that time, I was the one doing much of the gardening and landscaping work around our home. I remember buying patio stones from Home Depot and loading them into my Isuzu 4x4 SUV. After driving home, I unloaded them one by one and carried them to the backyard and side yard. Each stone was heavy, but I worked patiently, taking my time and completing the project piece by piece.
Back then, it was simply another home improvement job.
Today, it feels like a different chapter of life.
The truth is that I can no longer lift a patio stone. Even trimming shrubs or pruning small trees requires more effort than before. As we age, our bodies send us clear messages. The strength, stamina, and recovery time we once took for granted gradually change.
At first, it is easy to focus on what we can no longer do.
But I have learned that aging is not only about giving things up. It is also about choosing wisely.
Instead of fighting against reality, I try to select activities that match my current energy and abilities. There are still many things I can do and enjoy.
Blogging is one of them.
Learning new things is another.
Whether it is exploring artificial intelligence, improving my writing, learning about technology, reading about world events, or simply sharing life stories with friends and readers, these activities keep my mind active and curious.
In a way, I have traded lifting patio stones for lifting ideas.
The work is different, but the satisfaction is surprisingly similar.
A completed patio once gave me a sense of accomplishment. Today, a finished blog post gives me that same feeling. A successful gardening project once brightened my backyard. Now, learning something new brightens my day.
Growing older does not mean the journey is over.
It simply means the journey changes direction.
And as long as we continue to learn, share, and stay curious, there are still many rewarding paths ahead.
For that, I am thankful.
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