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La Salle College Changed My Life. At 80, I Am Still Learning.

 


Some schools give you an education. Some schools give you something much more valuable. They help shape the person you become.

For me, La Salle College was that school.

I graduated from La Salle College in 1964. That was a long time ago. More than six decades have passed, and I have accumulated plenty of memories, some pleasant, some difficult, and some that still make me smile.

Looking back, I realise that my years at La Salle were much more important than I understood at the time.

A young boy with a future ahead of him

When I was a student, I wasn't thinking about how my education would influence the next sixty years of my life. Like most boys, I was busy with schoolwork, friendships, activities and the everyday concerns of growing up.

I certainly didn't imagine that one day I would be looking back at those school years as one of the important turning points in my life.

La Salle gave me an educational foundation. But it also helped me develop confidence, discipline and a sense of responsibility.

It introduced me to friendships that would last for decades. Some of my schoolmates became lifelong friends. Even today, those connections remain precious to me.

One of them is John, my good friend since Form One. We have shared so many experiences over the years. It is remarkable how a friendship that began in a classroom can continue throughout a lifetime.

From the classroom to the working world

After graduating in 1964, I entered the working world.

My career took me through several pharmaceutical companies, including Abbott, Squibb and Ciba. I had opportunities to work in sales, product management, logistics and personnel administration.

Life was not always easy. There were challenges, changes, disappointments and unexpected opportunities.

I met people who influenced my career and people who gave me a helping hand when I needed one.

Looking back, I can see how the foundation I received at La Salle helped me face these different stages of my working life.

Of course, a school cannot prepare you for everything. Life itself is a demanding teacher. But a good education gives you somewhere to start.

At 80, I am still a student

Here comes the interesting part.

I am now 80 years old.

Many people might think that by this age, learning should have come to an end. Perhaps it is time to slow down, enjoy retirement and leave the complicated things to younger generations.

I have nothing against retirement. I enjoy my coffee outings with Julie, playing ping pong, spending time with family and grandchildren, and remembering the good old days.

But I have discovered something unexpected.

I still enjoy learning!

Recently, I became increasingly interested in artificial intelligence. I started experimenting with ChatGPT, asking questions, writing articles and exploring what AI could do.

Before long, I was using AI to help develop my website, AI123.ca, and document my experiences on Grandpa Journey.

I am certainly not a technology expert. I make mistakes, sometimes get confused, and occasionally need to ask the same question more than once.

But that is perfectly fine.

I have learned that the best way to understand AI is not simply to read about it. It is to start using it.

My AI learning journey has become another classroom, except that this time I have an AI companion sitting beside me.

There are no examinations, no report cards and no graduation ceremony. I learn at my own pace.

Two schools, two different stages of life

Sometimes I think about the connection between La Salle College and AI123.ca.

La Salle helped prepare a young man for the working world.

AI123.ca is helping an 80-year-old man explore a new world of technology.

The circumstances are very different, but the spirit of learning is much the same.

I am also discovering that learning is more enjoyable when it is shared. Through my writing, I hope to encourage other seniors who may feel that artificial intelligence is too complicated or that technology belongs only to younger people.

It doesn't.

If I can learn to use AI at 80, perhaps others can give it a try too.

My blogging projects also have a small social purpose. Any income they generate is intended to be donated to charitable organisations. It would be nice if something I enjoy doing could also benefit someone else.

Looking back, and looking forward

I owe La Salle College a great deal.

It was one of the institutions that helped shape my life. I am grateful for the teachers, classmates, friendships and opportunities that came with those school years.

But I don't want to spend all my time looking backwards.

There are still things to discover, stories to write and experiences to enjoy.

I have a family, grandchildren, old friends and new interests. I have a memoir to complete and two blogging projects to develop.

At 80, I may not learn as quickly as I did when I was young. I may need more coffee breaks and occasional naps!

But I am still curious.

And that, I think, is what matters.

La Salle College changed my life. More than sixty years later, I am still learning.

Perhaps the best lesson I ever received from my school was not simply how to prepare for life, but how to keep learning throughout life.

Thank you, La Salle.

And thank you to everyone who has been part of my journey.

David Au


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A Little Advertising. A Little Friendship. A Lot of Heart.

A Wonderful Evening, Despite the Disappointing Dinner

 There are evenings when the company is more enjoyable than the food. Last night was one of them.

Julie and I attended a dinner gathering at Kingsfield Chinese Cuisine. We had a wonderful time. There was wine, laughter, jokes, friendly conversations and plenty of catching up with our fellow seniors.

The atmosphere was warm and cheerful. Nobody seemed to be in a hurry to leave. Conversations flowed from one to another, and before long, the evening had become another memorable social occasion.

However, I must admit that the food did not quite meet my expectations.

We have had lunch at Kingsfield several times in the past. On those occasions, the portions were generous, the food was tasty, and the table service was excellent. Naturally, I expected the same standard for this dinner gathering.

I was looking forward to the quality of the meat and fish, the preparation of the dishes, the recipes and, of course, the service.

Unfortunately, the overall dining experience was a little disappointing. Perhaps my expectations were too high, based on our previous visits. I don't want to be unfair to the restaurant, but an honest account should include both the good and the not-so-good.

Fortunately, the evening offered much more than a meal.

One of the conversations I particularly enjoyed was about our forthcoming Christmas party. There will be preparations, gifts, entertainment and, naturally, karaoke singing.

Julie and I will participate in the singing. We are thinking of performing two songs, one in Chinese and another in English. We are certainly not professional singers, but that has never been the point. It is about joining in, having fun and sharing the moment with friends.

During dinner, I also took the opportunity to thank Charles, who has served as our chairman for more than a decade, and his wife for their tremendous efforts.

Charles is a quiet gentleman. He may not be the person who speaks the most, but he is full of energy and action behind the scenes. His dedication, together with his wife's contribution, has helped our group grow into what it is today.

I remember how the group started more than ten years ago. There were just a few seniors and a couple of tables at McConaghy Community Centre.

Look at us today! We now have several hundred senior members and approximately 50 tables.

That is quite a transformation. It takes commitment, patience, organization and, most importantly, people who are willing to give their time and energy to others.

We are fortunate to have Charles and his wife leading our group.

Looking back, I enjoyed the evening very much. The wine was enjoyable, the conversations were lively, and the jokes and laughter made the gathering worthwhile.

The food might not have lived up to my expectations, but friendship and companionship certainly did.

At this stage of life, I have learned that a memorable evening is not necessarily measured by the quality of the dishes on the table.

Sometimes, it is measured by the people sitting around it.

And last night, we had plenty of reasons to smile.

A little food, a little wine, a lot of friendship, and memories worth keeping.

That is another chapter in Grandpa Journey.



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